Help for a distracted Mind in Prayer.

Help for a distracted Mind in Prayer.

 

My family and I recently watched the movie “Up” and the dog character, Dug, really reminded me of how we can often get distracted in prayer. Dug is found at times in the middle of a focused conversation and then suddenly, without warning, gets distracted when he sees something and shouts out the thing that is distracting him. The most well-known example of this is “squirrel!”.

 

 

How do we focus our prayer time and deal with the squirrel moments?

 

squirrel 640x427Our minds are amazing things and thoughts are triggered by smell, music, images and emotion.  This is not a bad thing, but for many our minds can feel very cluttered when we are  praying.

 

How do we focus in on praying?

 

It is common for many when they have set times of prayer to have their minds go every which direction than what they have set out to do in the moment.

Have you ever been there?  We all will at some point.

 

Here are four things to help you when you get distracted in your prayer time.

a. Incorporate it into your prayer.

I do not know if there is a reason your mind went to that person or situation or all the things you need to do but why do you have fight it?

If it is something that needs to be written down, do so and pray about it. As people or situations come to mind, pray about or for them.

b. Read scripture

This can often help focus the mind and you can use the themes in the passage you are reading to guide your time.  Find a few passages that you can pull up to help you focus and calm yourself.  In my life psalm 23, 46, 90, 119, 145 are just a few I use.

c.  Understand your environment.

We all will connect deeper with God in different environments.  We need to become very aware of our environment and where we are at physically.  Perhaps there is a need to shut certain lights off or turn them on. Many are going to need to shut the phone or parts of the phone off.  In my current season of life, set prayer times need to be when my kids are sleeping or off busy for a time where they will not be coming to me.  Play around with your environment.

d. Deep breathing

There was a moment of great anxiety in our life at one point.  We had invited a number of the leaders over to our house after church and wanted them to pray with us.  We struggled to share what was going on.  Then one of our other pastors told us to take some deep breaths.  He instructed us to count to 10 and as we did take a deep breath, then push it all out.

 

Doing such an exercise can be a great way of calming oneself.  Sometimes I image as I blow out that I am pushing out all the worries and distractions and burdens I carry.  Usually, I will do the breathing in and out a few times.  I have learned there can be a physical impact upon my body by doing this.  In return, it can help me focus.

 

There are many more tricks and ideas I could add, but what about you, do you have any tricks or ideas?

A Framework for Prayer

3 prayersEver find yourself looking for a tool to help frame your prayer time?  

Having a prayer framework can help you stay focused in your  conversation with Jesus. Over the years in my own journey I have used different frameworks to help guide my prayer times.  

A prayer framework is simply a pattern to follow in your prayer time for life.  Jesus provided this to the disciples when they asked him how to pray.

Mike Bickle, in his book “Growing in Prayer: A Real-Life Guide to Talking with God,” shares about how nearly all prayers can be categorized into three themes.

Using these three themes, you can frame your prayer time.  To start, you could spend time within each theme, You could draw three circles that overlap just a little in your journal and place within those circles a request that follows under each heading. Then start praying.  

The three themes to consider are:

1. Praying for the fruit (or Character of Christ) to be established in people’s lives.

It is the desire of Jesus that the fruits of the Spirit, as we read in Galatians 5:22-23, are developed in us.  As the fruits of the spirit take root and reproduce in our life or others we both will enter, engage, and experience the life we were created for.  This areas is about praying for personal character to be transformed by Jesus. 

What this could look like:

Jesus I bring to you Sue (a name chosen at random, not connected to anyone in specific).  Holy Spirit let her see and hear clearly the voice of the spirit guiding her.  Reveal where there may be sin holding her back so that fruit may spring up out of the darkness from your light.   May she know you in greater depths and may she know herself and who she is created to be.   

2. Pray for the releasing of the gifts of the Spirit

Here we are asking for a releasing of the supernatural; we are praying for God’s power to be seen in people’s lives and other various places. (1 Cor. 12:7-10)

What this could look like:

Jesus, in John’s life, I ask for a greater measure of your power to be manifested. Release the gifts of the Spirit in his life that your kingdom may grow and lives be transformed.  Give him favour with others that he may serve and experience your power and glory.  

3. The wisdom of the Spirit released.

Here we are praying for an increase of understanding and insight into God’s plan and will and word for us or others.

What this could look like:

Jesus grant my church wisdom and insight as to the next steps we are to take.  Give us specific direction for each area of the life of the church and overall journey.  

These are just three themes to serve as a simple framework to guide your prayer time.  

What frameworks have you found helpful in your journey?  Try this for a week and see if it can help you and your prayer time.

Lent and Prayer : Time to Refresh your Prayer Life

Lent and Prayer : Time to Refresh your Prayer Life

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1304Prayer is a normal part of the Christian life.  If you are following Jesus, hopefully you are already practicing prayer.

The season of Lent provides an opportunity to rededicate time for prayer. Let’s face it, many struggle with the busyness of life, and this means that our spiritual disciplines suffer.  We know it is good and we should do it, but we don’t.  Let the Lent season be a time to refresh your prayer life.

How to refresh your prayer life:

a. Set aside time

Just as we would set a time up to meet with a friend, we need to do this with Jesus.  It’s like a wife and husband setting a date night.  It will not happen unless you set the time.  Keep this simple and start small.  The beauty of this choice is it may be a practice you keep up after the season ends.  Instead of giving up, you take up.

During the Lent season I would encourage the setting aside of a longer time for prayer.  For example, some churches will have extra weekly prayer gatherings.  For instance, one Church I know has the church open for a prayer vigil, from the Thursday just before Easter to their Good Friday service. .  They work to get people to sign up for one hour.    Individual and corporate times are equally important.

b. Consider walking and praying

In colder areas this can be a challenge, but it is a practical way to get physically active and spiritual at same time. You can even use the things you see to guide how you pray.

c. Use Examen Prayers

It is a prayer of remembering where God has met us and helped us.  It is a prayerful reflection on the events of the day in order to understand him and his direction for us.

Over at http://www.ignatianspirituality.com/ you will find a resource called Lunch time examen.  It is a series of six online guided prayer sessions – Click here to go there.

d. Lectio Divina with the Bible.

This is a series of reflection steps on scripture that you can use to guide your prayer time.

Checkout this blog post for how to do Lectio Divina

e. Journal

This is a great tool.  You can write out your own prayers.  You can copy scripture into it. You can write down what is happening in your life.  It is a place to help untangle the thoughts of one’s mind.  It is a place to look back, and see where you are coming from and where God is taking you.

Here are some good thoughts from www.holyexperience.com on Journaling as a Spiritual discipline: An Act of Prayer. Click here

The Lent season can be used as a time to refresh your prayer life. What is one step you will take today to begin the journey?